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Topic: Family heirlooms vs. the family fortune
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Robert Pearlman Editor Posts: 42988 From: Houston, TX Registered: Nov 1999
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posted 11-02-2009 12:44 PM
For several years now, I have read as members have discussed the potential value of their collections to their spouse and children after they themselves have passed away and coupled with the e-mails I receive weekly from the descendants of space program workers seeking to appraise and sell their loved one's space memorabilia, it has had me thinking...Has the concept of family heirlooms been killed off by the economy and eBay? I routinely hear about people assuming their collections will be sold upon their death, but have any members tried to emphasize to their family members the importance -- if there is such an importance -- to their collections (or some subset therein) being kept for their future generations to learn from and enjoy? I just wonder if eBay (primarily) had existed a century or more ago, would I today own anything that belonged to my great grandparents? Will my grandchildren? |
Rick Mulheirn Member Posts: 4167 From: England Registered: Feb 2001
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posted 11-02-2009 01:13 PM
An interesting point Robert. I cannot speak for other members but the harsh financial reality is that when the time comes my wife would have little option but to sell my collection.There are a couple of items I would like donated to Museums for display, and I have earmarked one item each for my two children which are both personal to them and suitable "keepsakes" or heirlooms from their Dads' collection which I hope they would in turn pass on to their children. With the passage of time I can only hope my grand children and great grand children....should I have any, would appreciate and value these items more than my own children currently. Since my children have little or no interest in space any philanthropic gesture for the benefit of the greater public is unlikely. |
benguttery Member Posts: 547 From: Fort Worth, TX, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted 11-02-2009 02:09 PM
Hey Rick, your wife has already tried to sell us your stuff!Many people just aren’t collectors and many are not interested in this kind of preservation. I have donated thousands of items to libraries of various kinds. This was to preserve a unique group of items that might be valuable for research purposes. It was stuff I was obsessed with collection at one time or another. It was also easy to ship it off and take the tax write off. Many of the items we collect are not one of a kind. I have keepsakes from a few relatives that are important to me, but it’s the memories of these people that are more important than the things they left behind. It might be fun to dispose of my accumulations someday, but I really would not want to burden family with disposing of it.
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mjanovec Member Posts: 3811 From: Midwest, USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted 11-02-2009 02:15 PM
I have to believe that if family members don't share a similar passion for space, then the collection doesn't hold much sentimental value for the family...regardless if they keep it or not. Family members may prefer to hang onto something that is more of a direct reminder of the individual...such as photographs of that person, a personal affect (like a favorite hat or a cane), or perhaps written items (like letters or journals). I can envision some family members perhaps wanting to keep a space item around, if that item is a direct reminder of the person (perhaps a model they built or a photo inscribed to the person that hung on the wall of the study for several years). Otherwise, I don't expect familiy members without an interest in space collectibles to hang onto every signed WSS photo, embroidered patch, or lucite.Granted, one can specify to family members that it is important to keep the collection within the family, if that is truly one's desire. But I have to wonder what value it will hold to descendents if nobody else places a similar value on the items. There is always the danger that a collection might be accidentally (or purposely) discarded by a future generation that assigns no importance to it (or doesn't realize it's worth). My own personal preference, if I got hit by a bus tomorrow, would be for my family to keep my collection only if they truly wanted it. Otherwise, I would prefer them to sell it off for the most money possible...and enjoy the money for something fun (like a vacation) or use it for funding someone's education. Also...and just as importantly...the collection I treasured would pass to the hands of other collectors who would care for it as much as I did. The item would continue to be appreciated and not just collect dust in an attic. |
StarDome New Member Posts: From: Registered:
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posted 11-02-2009 06:23 PM
I agree wth Rick.Im my case when I die a couple of items will stay with the family, such as my Omega Speedmaster, but the rest will be sold off to the highest bidder and the money split between the boys. |
jimsz Member Posts: 616 From: Registered: Aug 2006
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posted 11-02-2009 08:58 PM
Interesting discussion!I think of a family heirloom as something personal to the family. A painting created by a long ago artist, a chair handcrafted, even a photo of yourself or grandpa with Neil Armstrong (or another hero) that he autographed for you. An heirloom is something I think of is something that can't be replaced. My space collection (modest as it is) and all the astronaut autographs I have are keepsakes for me but not heirlooms. Though it would not be cheap (by my standards) all of them could be replaced at the next auction or two. I keep the autographs because they are important to me in that the Astronauts sent most of them to me as a kid. Should I be hit by a greyhound bus and they outlast me, my family really has no interest or attachment to them to be considered heirlooms. |
ilbasso Member Posts: 1522 From: Greensboro, NC USA Registered: Feb 2006
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posted 11-02-2009 09:20 PM
I watched with interest, sadness, and disgust two weekends ago as my deceased in-laws' estate was auctioned off. Eighty years of accumulated possessions for a family who was considered pretty well-off in their small town went for $15,000 - and that was including a car and a silver flatware set that accounted for nearly half of the total amount. As the auction wrapped up, I told my wife that in no circumstance should she EVER do that with my space collection!!I am hoping that my son will want some or all of what I am collecting, and I will leave much of it to him when I am gone, with hopes that he would preserve some or all of it for future generations. Other items will probably go to museums - although we have certainly seen that private collections often care better for artifacts than museums. When I made up my first will many years ago (you ALL have wills, don't you???), I asked my attorney if I could instruct that certain items of my estate not be sold. He said that such provisions in wills were basically unenforceable. If your heir wants to sell your stuff, even against your wishes, that's their business. |
LCDR Scott Schneeweis New Member Posts: From: Registered:
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posted 11-03-2009 09:53 AM
Over a hundred years, (5 generations), ebay or not one would expect to see the collection largely attrited due to loss, damage, sales, disinterest. Part of the reason why I strongly advocate applying durable tags with important information about the history/application of the item so that subsequent generations have at least a small shot at understanding the value of and are incentivized to preserve the artifact.------------------ Scott Schneeweis http://www.SPACEAHOLIC.com/ |
mjanovec Member Posts: 3811 From: Midwest, USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted 11-03-2009 04:50 PM
Let us look at it from the other direction. If a family member of yours was an avid collector of antique vacuum cleaners (yes, there are indeed vacuum cleaner collectors out there) and they passed away, how we would feel about inheriting a garage full of 246 vacuum cleaners? What if they asked us to never sell them or part with them, but to hand them down to future generations? Would we really want to keep and preserve a large collection of items we have no personal interest in?As I said earlier, in the absence of family interest in my own collection, I would prefer my own collection be sold off to other avid collectors who will enjoy and preserve the items as well as I did. In fact, I'm grateful when families sell off space collections of a deceased family member. They are ensuring the items go to loving homes. Too many prized collections often end up in the trash due to ignorance and indifference. How many Armstrong autographs get tossed each year by family members who don't know any better? |
Robert Pearlman Editor Posts: 42988 From: Houston, TX Registered: Nov 1999
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posted 11-03-2009 05:13 PM
Let me use a real world example: my father passed away when I was 11. Among his possessions was a large collection of Boy Scout patches.I was a Cub Scout, but Scouting never appealed to me as much as it did to my father, who was an Eagle Scout. Still, he took me to a few jamborees when I was young and encouraged me to pick up some of the patches offered at them. They never really meant much to me, other than what it meant to take part in a father-son activity. His albums now sit in storage. I could try selling them to a collector or giving them to a local Scout troop, but in the back of my mind is the idea that perhaps among my children, or my grandchildren (or there on), one or more will take a stronger interest in Scouting and wouldn't it be something then, if a box could be opened and there before him/her was presented their (great) grandfather's patch collection. What a prize that would be. My own interest in space collecting can be traced back in part to my mother's collection of July 21, 1969 newspapers, saved from her time then as a teacher. She couldn't have known that her son would take up such a strong interest, and a local library or school might have served those papers well in the years in-between. But the common interest, tied together with the family connection, made the discovery of those papers greater than any treasure I could imagine in my youth. Certainly, storing away patches or newspapers is easier than vacuum cleaners, but I sometimes wonder if the very idea of saving such items for future, unknown generations of family members is as common a consideration today as it was in years past. |
StarDome New Member Posts: From: Registered:
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posted 11-04-2009 02:46 AM
At the end of the day, once we are dead we wont have a clue what our relatives will do with our stuff.I am all for encouraging future generations to be interested in space however, I have two sons, one who isn't interested at all and one too young to know any different. Maybe they will become interested? I am not one for forcing them to like something just because I do. The "You can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink" kind of thing. I am sure though that sometime in the future, they would both rather prefer a leg up in life, to have a deposit for a house or new car rather than a collection of stuff they aren't really interested in just because dad was into it all. Provided I died for some reason before they were old enough to need these things anyhow. Sure there is the sentimental thing, but if we thought like that about everything we owned or inherited then 1) we would never ever get rid of anything and 2) what an added headache for our relatives in finding somewhere large enough to store it all if it's a large collection. I wouldn't put pressure on my relatives either by asking them to keep a collection just for old times sake. Rather try selling the collection as a whole (If possible) and in life leaving them an idea of values and prices paid for items making "tags" as Scott mentioned with info about the item, and provenenace. I have a friend who has listed every item in his collection with it's history and how much he paid for it so that when he dies his family will have an idea of it's value. I personally would like them to at least know about the people involved in the hobby who I have trusted, respected and dealt with over the years where my family could turn for advise on all things space collecting related so they wouldn't be ripped off when the collection was sold. Then,for them to enjoy something in my death like a nice holiday away together to remember me by, or as I said a deposit for a house/car. My wife, who is a lawyer who deals with tax, will's, probates and complex multi million £/$ estates and is power of attorney amongst other things has come across this in her line of work, where a will specifically asks for a particular item/items to be looked after once the client has deceased. This can have many outcomes and can impact in many different ways on relatives that are left. I was once left some money by my grandparents who had died, what I did was went out and bought a nice wristwatch (not my Speedmaster) and every time I wear it and look at the time it reminds me of the wonderful times we spent together. Now That means more to me as a memory of them than having a collection of items in a store room some where. But we are all different and all have our own ideas as to what we feel best done once we have slipped the surley bonds. |
capoetc Member Posts: 2169 From: McKinney TX (USA) Registered: Aug 2005
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posted 11-04-2009 07:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by LCDR Scott Schneeweis: ... Part of the reason why I strongly advocate applying durable tags with important information about the history/application of the item so that subsequent generations have at least a small shot at understanding the value of and are incentivized to preserve the artifact.
Well said, and I couldn't agree more! Even something as simple as an Apollo 11 insurance cover could be viewed as a normal "piece of crap" that somebody must have saved for some reason unless there is someone around who understands what it is. I have created an inventory of my collection that I keep with the collection so that my wife or interested others will know what the stuff is, its historical significance, provenance information, etc.For example, I have a flown Apollo 17 flag originally presented to one of the first members of the Space Task Group, and the flag itself is signed "Flown around the moon on Apollo 17" by Gene Cernan. Its a nice piece, and taken by itself it would likely be considered something that has some value and should be saved. However, without accompanying information, no one would know that I also have copies of interviews with the Space Task Group member to whom it belonged, and a Saturday Evening Post magazine in which he was featured, and pictures of the gentleman ... well, you get the idea. These items all belong together to "tell the story" of the piece, but they could EASILY get separated absent some appropriate tagging to prevent that from occurring. ------------------ John Capobianco Camden DE |
spaced out Member Posts: 3110 From: Paris, France Registered: Aug 2003
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posted 11-04-2009 04:31 PM
Lots of good points made above.In my own case I have deliberately set out to acquire two examples of certain items explicitly for my children. They are too young to appreciate any of this yet, and I don't harbor any illusions that they will necessarily be interested in the future, but I'd like to be prepared just in case. In the 'worst' case they won't be interested at all in space history, in which case they can sell the items to someone who is and use the money to buy themselves something that interests them. That's not really such a bad thing. We are all just temporary guardians of the space memorabilia we currently own. As such, our most important tasks are to preserve the items themselves, and to ensure that their history and monetary value is not lost when the items are passed onto someone else. Your family should be aware of your collection, and know where to find the recorded details and any accompaying documentation. I would also suggest you tell them (or write down somewhere they'll find it) the best people to contact about these items if they want or need to sell them at any stage. Don't put this off for a rainy day or retirement. It would be tragic both historically and financially if an ordinary-looking item with an extraordinary history was thrown out with the trash just because no-one realized what it was. |
StarDome New Member Posts: From: Registered:
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posted 11-05-2009 01:38 AM
As the watch company Patek Philippe say in their motto: You never actually own a Patek Philippe. You merely take care of it for the next generation. Maybe that goes for our collections too - if they are ever interested! | |
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